First of all, I would love to express my endless love to Aiden and Enzo 💕
In the past year, I am so grateful that there are three of us, each good at and responsible for different areas.
I’m sure there is no way that this lovely place could have been built without any of us. 💕
As an admin and IT idiot, Sales should be the most suitable position for me.
When trying to introduce what (or who 😂) I like to others, Aiden is always amazed by my natural selling tone.
While I always try my best to describe what our sex-positive community is like to others,
it is just natural that not everyone is suitable to join us.
Whenever I’m speaking to someone new, at the back of my head, I am also judging if he/she is suitable for us.
We will NEVER take random people without selection just to expand BoT.
As many people have already asked how we select our participants, I decided to share our guidelines with everyone here.
Though the following guideline applies to both genders, the fact is we are more selective when it comes to selecting males.
I’m sure everyone would agree ladies do need more protection on sexual matters, right?
Also, it is related to the number of applications we received.
When there are significantly more male applicants than female applicants (while the spaces are limited),
it’s just natural that we have a higher expectation of males.
Requirements for participants are listed below:
1. Value.
There are over a million ways to look for a sex partner, and in BoT, our core value is more than just finding sex partners.
It is all about having clean, discrete and drama-free fun, at least for me, I wouldn’t risk my professional reputation or health for fun.
So sharing a similar value with us is a basic requirement.
2. Politeness.
To be honest, I don’t think it should have been listed as a requirement, as I believe this is just a basic quality of human beings.
But sadly, my experiences have taught me the opposite.
So, I will share the first item on my checklist: How does a person greet me?
For example, greetings like “Party?” “Where?” “You wanna come out tonight?”
I would respond, “BYE~”. Please learn to greet and communicate before you learn to Fuck 😊
3. Clean and healthy look.
Does everyone have to look like a superstar or model to join BoT? If so, I would be the first one to fail in that case.
We were born differently with different looks and heights, but we believe everyone can look healthy and clean with just a little effort.
At a party, when different choices are available, it is also natural that people with a better package will have an advantage.
4. Respect and Attitude.
We treat BoT as a community where we can meet different people with different backgrounds and personalities.
People who are seen as “weird” in mainstream society, such as those having special kinks, being fascinated by special stuff, or having unspeakable habits, are all welcomed here.
We hope everyone can enjoy and be in their true self in BOT.
Just like what our introduction stated, we embrace and respect everyone’s uniqueness, boundaries and comfort zone.
This is also the necessary quality we expect from our participants.
We don't need you to be very experienced, as we believe that skills in communication and sex can be polished by learning and practice.
What we really value is your attitude, how a person respects everyone’s uniqueness, and gets to know everyone with love, that’s what makes BOT cosy and warm.
Every member is part of BoT, please feel free to speak up if any current member has any opinion on this topic ❤️